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"Pastor, I'm young and not thinking about marriage yet,but how do I resist the temptations of this world and control my desires?"


 

I'm surprised that there are still young people thinking this way. Nowadays, satisfying the desires of the flesh has become common, even among Christians. Some pastors even promote what they call "Christian dating." But in my article yesterday, I made it clear that desiring a romantic life when you're not ready for marriage is a distraction from serving God. You'd be wasting your energy on something that probably won't work out.

One of my followers who read yesterday’s article was relieved. She had been struggling with feelings for a guy, but deep down, she knew it wasn't the right time for her. She fought against those feelings until one day she realized they were gone.

In today's world, where many people have lost sight of morals and decency, it's crucial to take strict measures to avoid being pressured into doing the wrong thing. Here are two things you can do:


Be cautious of pleasure.

Pleasure can weaken your spiritual strength and distract you from focusing on God. It's okay to enjoy things, but if you let pleasure control you, it can take over your desire for spiritual things. For example, if you spend hours watching movies or playing games, you might end up skipping important spiritual activities like prayer. Remember, you're in charge of your body, not the other way around. Discipline yourself by controlling what gives you pleasure, like limiting social media use or cutting back on unnecessary entertainment.

Apostle Paul talks about this in the Bible too. He says, "Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh" (Galatians 5:16). This means if you focus on spiritual things, you won't give in to sinful desires.


Set a daily routine.

Having a set routine can help you stay focused and avoid unnecessary distractions. Plan out your day with specific times for important activities like prayer, Bible study, and personal growth. Stick to this routine as much as possible, so there's no room for unwanted pleasures to sneak in. If you have a clear schedule, it's easier to resist temptations and stay on track with your spiritual goals.

Creating a routine can also help you manage your time better and make the most of each day. Whether it's setting aside time for prayer in the evening or dedicating an hour to reading the Bible, having a structured schedule can keep you disciplined and focused on what truly matters.

I hope these tips help you navigate the challenges of controlling your desires and staying focused on your spiritual journey.


Stay blessed in Jesus' name!"



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